The greatest academic inspiration i had:
During my time in 300L at the University of Maiduguri, I encountered an experience that profoundly influenced my academic journey. My Dad, knowing he would be in a location difficult to reach in emergency (Bonny area of Rivers State), he handed me three blank cheques with a simple instruction: use them whenever a financial need arises. This gesture left me stunned; my Dad wasn't wealthy, yet his trust and unwavering confidence in me resonated deeply. I questioned why he would extend such trust. Returning to school, I carried those blank cheques throughout the semester, never cashing them. Instead, I kept them in a file as a reminder of his faith in me.
Throughout my academic path, I encountered numerous inspiring educators, but none could surpass the impact of my Dad, in an effort to encourage me he had done alot that i can't even count but this particular act became a turning point. It ignited a determination within me to make my Dad proud through my academic pursuits. This resolve didn't end with a single degree; I bagged two bachelor's degrees, three master's degrees, a Ph.D., a postgraduate diploma in education, and I am on the brink of finishing another master's degree alongside a professional diploma.
My Dad's simple yet profound gesture continues to guide and inspire me, shaping my academic journey into pursuing of knowledge with sufficient grace. My Dad's actions have not only been a source of academic inspiration for me but also provided me with valuable insights on money. His teachings have instilled in me the importance of living above a mere pursuit of wealth, reinforcing the idea that no amount of money should tempt me to compromise my principles. His influence transcends mere words; he hasn't just handed me blank cheques, but has equally released is blessings on me. The blessings of one's parents hold a significance that surpasses any other form of blessing one may receive from men, even outweighing those from clergymen. Without your parents' blessings, you may not be fully prepared for the journey ahead.
To all students who may be facing challenges either academically or in other related paths, it's possible that you are yet to pinpoint your inspiration or you possibly embarked on this tedious journey without your parents blessings. Identifying what inspires you and getting your parents blessings means that you will navigate your path with grace rather than relying solely on your own strength. When you journey with grace it implies that even with little energy, you'll witness remarkable results. Your source of inspiration is likely closer than you think; all it takes is asking, searching, and nurturing that desire within you.
- Babylon Philemon, PhD
